6 Secrets Men Do Not Normally Admit To Or Tell You
March 3, 2011 | Featured, Money & Relationships, Sex and Love
1.They will check out other women regardless of their relationship status
Men will check out other hot and good looking women even if they are in a relationship with somebody else at the moment. After all, men are deemed to be visual creatures. When the oogling isn’t done in such an obvious way, what harm can be done !
2. Getting too tipsy on a date is a turnoff
Most guys think that for a girl to get too tipsy on a date (especially more so on a first date) is a turnoff. Why? For most people, both men and women, once you have higher than normal levels of alcohol, you become an entirely different person. Don’t push it too far to the point where you’re flirting with the waiter and tempted to climb up and start dancing on tables.
3. Wearing too much makeup is suspect
Not too many guys out there like women that wear too much makeup. This can be in the form of layering 5 layers of foundation, 2 layers of powder, too much lipstick (or lipstick in outrageously loud colors such as fuchsia pink paired with too smoky an eye), too much eye makeup e.t.c Even though you may wear makeup, keep in natural and use it to highlight and accentuate your features, instead of masking them under heavy and harsh makeup.
3. They don’t like baggage
Just like you don’t want baggage, men really aren’t prepared to deal with a lot of baggage whether it’s from your past or coming from your present. Bringing all your issues and problems into a relationship puts a lot of pressure on the relationship and could lead to an early breakup. It’s just best to leave it at the door or better yet, if you can afford it, a therapist would more likely be a much better choice in helping you sort through your childhood trauma.
4. They actually like to cuddle
Men really do like to snuggle here and there, they just aren’t too quick to admit this cozy fact. Cuddling with your man makes them feel secure, wanted and loved in the relationship, which is a boost no matter what.
5. They are insecure when it comes to dirty talk
If you’re guy is talking dirty to you during a sack session, remember that it may have taken him quite the courage. Don’t laugh even if it’s at times outrageous, his worst fear is that he may become the leading topic once you and your girlfriends get together for drinks.
6. They have a natural fear of commitment
Commitment is a large part of being mature. When a man decides to commit to one woman, especially on the long run through an engagement or marriage, it means that they are saying to themselves that this one woman is enough for them and there’s really no turning back. This can take some men quite a bit of time, some may need more time than others to start feeling comfortable and content with this idea.
